You are in for a treat today. My friend, Dr. Gary Sayler, has written a game-changing book, Safe To Love Again How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. In this book he skillfully illuminates the origins of the blocks to love so many suffer with, whether its around […]
The Difference Between Manifestation and Magical Thinking
Magical Thinking is something children do naturally and it’s a fun process for them. Believing in Santa Claus is a good example. But when we grow up and mature, engaging in magical thinking will often lead to frustration and disappointment. Magical Thinking is “wishing” to win the lottery but never buying a ticket. Magical Thinking […]
What Law & Order Taught Me About Love
One of my favorite TV series of the last 20 years is Law and Order. I avidly watch all of the various versions of the show and often fall asleep to re-runs! I’m always impressed with how the defense attorneys stand up for their unlikable clients, working hard to prove that one is “innocent until […]
Before You React, Reflect!
This morning I came across a colleagues name and that reminded me that she had not responded to my last three emails, which were requests for assistance on something that she easily could have said no to. I felt myself getting angry, and feeling dissed, and then my imagination began thinking up ways to trick […]
Do Opposites Really Attract?
A few years ago I was at a gathering of personal growth experts and leaders. Many have names you would recognize. All would consider themselves “spiritual” people. At dinner, I was seated next to a very handsome 50-something man who was the boyfriend of one of our members. Let’s call her Julie and call him […]
What Are You Waiting For?
When my nephew Beau was around three years old, I was driving him somewhere while he was safely strapped in his car seat. I asked him a question and he quickly said to me, “Don’t talk to me now, I’m playing with my imagination.” Wow. What an answer! I was truly taken aback by his […]
Dancing with Hope (So Love Can Have More Love)
You are in for a treat today. My friend, Dr. Gary Sayler, has written a game-changing book, Safe To Love Again How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. In this book he skillfully illuminates the origins of the blocks to love so many suffer with, whether its around […]
Who’s The Man In Your Relationship?
I am a very “bottom-line” person. I speak my mind. I call it as I see it, without all that flowery talk. While this communication style may be very useful in the workplace, I discovered it’s not a quality most men find endearing or attractive. One evening, when I was in my early thirties, I […]
Are You OPEN to Magic & Miracles?
Here’s what I love most about the Law of Attraction: it works! And nearly every day, since 1984, I have more and more proof that it works. Now I know many of you have lots of proof that it hasn’t worked for you in the past and that is no reason to give up on […]
Lady Gaga Has Changed Me
We recently went to Las Vegas to see Lady Gaga perform her “Jazz” show. It was a beautiful mix of classic American standards (many she had sung on an album with Tony Bennett) and a medley of her pop hits. I was fully expecting to be blown away by her voice, & costumes, the orchestra, […]
Declare Yourself A LOVE Philanthropist
My dear friend Marci Shimoff taught me the phrase Love Philanthropist, and every time I say it, it makes me smile. Just as I’ve learned that tithing not only makes me feel good, and does good for others, it also brings me more abundance. Being a Love Philanthropist brings more love. There are so many […]