How to BE with NOT KNOWING

One of the first things I learned in Journalism school is the importance to provide the Who, What, When, Where, and How in every story. As someone who always wanted to know all of those things, especially when I am trying to make BIG decisions and choices in my life, learning how to BE with […]

How Many ”I Love You’s” Is Too Much?

Can your soulmate ever say “I Love You” too often? I doubt it. Of course, you first need a warm, loving, awesome soulmate to find out. For those of you fortunate ones who are living life with your soulmate, challenge yourself to UP your love sharing. Use every opportunity to tell them how much love […]

How to Have MORE, better SEX (at any age)

On my most recent episode of BIG LOVE PODCAST, my special guest is sexpert, Susan Bratton. Known as the trusted hot sex advisor to millions,™  Susan is a walking, talking brain trust on everything from how to more, better sex at any age to how & why money impacts your sex life. We had a […]

Be A LOVE Plusser (here’s how!)

I recently attended a creativity workshop taught by famed artist and animator, Dave Zoboski (link to www.TheAlchemyofCreativity.com ). He spent decades working as a Senior Animator at Disney, Sony and Warner Brothers. We all were given colored pencils and a sketchpad while Dave’s model posed for us.  Most of us didn’t have any real artistic […]

The Difference Between Manifestation and Magical Thinking

Magical Thinking is something children do naturally and it’s a fun process for them. Believing in Santa Claus is a good example. But when we grow up and mature, engaging in magical thinking will often lead to frustration and disappointment. Magical Thinking is “wishing” to win the lottery but never buying a ticket. Magical Thinking […]

What Law & Order Taught Me About Love

One of my favorite TV series of the last 20 years is Law and Order. I avidly watch all of the various versions of the show and often fall asleep to re-runs! I’m always impressed with how the defense attorneys stand up for their unlikable clients, working hard to prove that one is “innocent until […]

Before You React, Reflect!

This morning I came across a colleagues name and that reminded me that she had not responded to my last three emails, which were requests for assistance on something that she easily could have said no to.  I felt myself getting angry, and feeling dissed, and then my imagination began thinking up ways to trick […]

Do Opposites Really Attract?

A few years ago I was at a gathering of personal growth experts and leaders. Many have names you would recognize. All would consider themselves “spiritual” people. At dinner, I was seated next to a very handsome 50-something man who was the boyfriend of one of our members. Let’s call her Julie and call him […]

What Are You Waiting For?

When my nephew Beau was around three years old, I was driving him somewhere while he was safely strapped in his car seat. I asked him a question and he quickly said to me, “Don’t talk to me now, I’m playing with my imagination.” Wow. What an answer! I was truly taken aback by his […]

Dancing with Hope (So Love Can Have More Love)

You are in for a treat today. My friend, Dr. Gary Sayler, has written a game-changing book, Safe To Love Again How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve.  In this book he skillfully illuminates the origins of the blocks to love so many suffer with, whether its around […]