The core basis of my belief and understanding about manifestation (whether you are manifesting love, a car, a new career, or a new little black dress) is this: There is no “time.” The past, present, and future all happen simultaneously. When we have a desire for something, it’s because some part of us […]
I Was a Lousy Wife (a confession)
Today I am in my 17th year of an amazing, deeply loving, fulfilling marriage to my soulmate Brian… and I almost blew it! Soon after we got married, I made a horrifying discovery: I had no clue how to be a great wife. I was an excellent manifestor, and I was great at being […]
Are You Leaking Negative Energy and Turning Off Men?
Have you ever considered that the signals you send out (involuntarily) every day may be turning off the very men you’re living with or trying to attract? My good friend and colleague, Marni Battista, calls this “negative energy.” And it’s the #1 chemistry killing mistake that keeps men from asking you out, keeps […]
Fast Fix for Fear
A few months ago I was watching Grey’s Anatomy on TV and learned the most awesome thing! Here was the scene: Dr. Amelia Shepard was standing in the surgical suite, about to perform a groundbreaking 17-hour brain surgery on a colleague. She was scared out of her mind because if anything went wrong, her friend […]
Be A Pleasure Pig – Part Two
A few weeks ago I introduced you to the concept of living life like our cat Yoda does, as a Pleasure Pig. We talked about all the ways to give yourself more pleasure in order to build oxytocin in your brain (while reducing stress). Oxytocin is known as the “cuddling hormone” and having […]
5 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart
My good friend and colleague, licensed psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT is like me – devoted to helping people find the love of their lives… And in her work with thousands of women and men, Katherine has found that sometimes it’s a breakup that allows us to do just that. She pioneered […]
Why Your Dream Is Already A Reality
The core basis of my belief and understanding about manifestation (whether you are manifesting love, a car, a new career, or a new little black dress) is this: There is no “time.” The past, present, and future all happen simultaneously. When we have a desire for something, it’s because some part of us […]
Are You In A Season of Love Or Loneliness? What To Do…
I have always found Vedic Astrology to be a useful tool in understanding how the planets are impacting my life and helpful in making decisions. More often than not, it provides a good explanation from what I am intuitively feeling about how things are going. One of my favorite astrologers is my dear friend and […]
Prayers for Love & Resolution
Even in the best relationships, there are days when the you-know-what hits the fan and communication breakdowns and hurt feelings seem overwhelming. For times like this I pray for clarity and guidance. I’ve often wished I had a book full of prayers for every conceivable situation and finally one has appeared! My dear friend, […]
Be A Pleasure Pig
Our cat Yoda is nicknamed “the pleasure pig.” Yoda demands massive amounts of attention, belly rubs, cheek scratches, and snacks of his favorite baby food, which we called “Yoda’s Crack.” The other day I was watching Brian give Yoda his yoga stretching massage and was silently wishing that I was as good at demanding pleasure […]
3 Keys To Being a GREAT Soulmate
We all know that nurturing and growing Big Love requires us to be present with our partner and to consciously provide them with our love, time, affection, appreciation, and heaps of kindness. And in order to do that, it’s necessary to remember that we first need to fill up our own tank. Today is a […]