It’s Okay to Love Your Ex

It’s okay to love your Ex. In fact, it’s probably impossible to stop loving the ones we’ve loved and cared for.  However, you do need to stop obsessing about then and finally accept that they are long gone, not coming back, and it’s time to forgive and let go. To stop obsessing requires discipline. It’s […]

Love Before First Sight – A Reminder!

During the past month I’ve been teaching more than usual and meeting lots of students of The Soulmate Secret (which is always fun!).  It seems that everywhere I go I hear from several women that The Soulmate Secret worked for them and they are now happily married to their soulmate. (YAY!) The question I always […]

What Not To Wear

Around 1985, one of my very first personal growth teachers was a man named Harvey.  Each Tuesday night, a very small group of us would gather in his West Hollywood living room and he would share the wisdom he had learned after having a near death experience. One night he asked us if we had […]

Be A Great Kisser!

Kissing is really one of life’s simple pleasures! As if we needed a really good reason to kiss the object of our desire, it turns out that some researchers believe that kissing evolved as a way to assess a potential partner’s compatibility because it exchanges a host of information about health and hormonal status. Dr. […]

Love, Law of Attraction and YOU!

Friday is Valentine’s Day (as I am sure you know) and I want you to give yourself permission to spoil yourself completely! If you feel yourself resisting this idea, please remember that the Law of Attraction states “what you put your attention on grows.” When we focus on self love, we attract more love. Now, […]

The Marriage Effect – the latest research!

I recently came across some fascinating research.  It turns out the married couples, that are essentially happy and are in a good marriage, get the benefits of something called The Marriage Effect which means that they are: More likely to live longer More likely to be physically and mentally healthier and happier And will recover […]

The Most Loving Thing You Can Do

When I was single, I dreaded Valentine’s Day.   In spite of my best efforts to “remain positive,” V-Day was a glaring reminder that I was all alone and it kicked up my insecurities that somehow true love was not in the cards for me.  If only I knew then what I eventually figured out…. That big […]

How To Know If He’s Your Soulmate

One of the questions I asked most often is: “How do I know if he is my soulmate?” Most of the soulmate couples I know have answered this question by saying that they just knew in every cell in their body that they were with the one. I do have one friend who said he […]

Busting Through Your Love Fears

Are you terrified of getting hurt (again)? Afraid of being disappointed in love? Scared of dating? Fearful that it’s just “not meant to be?” Guess what?  You are not alone.  Nearly all of us have been hurt, disappointed, scared and fearful of love. The difference between those that find love and those that don’t is […]

Dream it, Feel it, Live It!

Here’s a letter I just had to share with you from my friend, the amazing Robin Rice, who shares how she manifested her soulmate eight years ago. Dear Arielle, As you know, I just love your book, The Soulmate Secret, and the story of how you found your beloved Brian. Since I have a Brian of my […]