Researcher John Molloy interviewed 3,000 couples as they exited marriage license bureaus, and what he learned is was amazing. Here are just a few of the fascinating facts about “why men marry.” Men are attracted by the physical but marry character. 68% of men said they chose their wives because they were classy, positive, energetic, […]
Have the COURAGE to love
Courage is the key to having a fantastically intimate and loving relationship. It is a muscle that must be constantly exercised in order for it to show up in all of your actions and communications. It takes courage to get into a relationship, to fall in love, and to commit to another human being. It […]
Asking For What You Want Is Never Easy
Earlier this year I sent out a survey to all of you asking what your most pressing relationship issues are. I really wanted to discover the biggest “need to know” items. The overwhelming #1 response was communication skills! Somehow most of us never learned effective ways to ask for what we most want and need. […]
Why Men Marry
Researcher John Molloy interviewed 3,000 couples as they exited marriage license bureaus, and what he learned is was amazing. Here are just a few of the fascinating facts about “why men marry.” Men are attracted by the physical but marry character. 68% of men said they chose their wives because they were classy, positive, energetic, […]
It’s Okay to Love Your Ex
It’s okay to love your Ex. In fact, it’s probably impossible to stop loving the ones we’ve loved and cared for. However, you do need to stop obsessing about then and finally accept that they are long gone, not coming back, and it’s time to forgive and let go. To stop obsessing requires discipline. It’s […]
Love Before First Sight – A Reminder!
During the past month I’ve been teaching more than usual and meeting lots of students of The Soulmate Secret (which is always fun!). It seems that everywhere I go I hear from several women that The Soulmate Secret worked for them and they are now happily married to their soulmate. (YAY!) The question I always […]
What Not To Wear
Around 1985, one of my very first personal growth teachers was a man named Harvey. Each Tuesday night, a very small group of us would gather in his West Hollywood living room and he would share the wisdom he had learned after having a near death experience. One night he asked us if we had […]
Be A Great Kisser!
Kissing is really one of life’s simple pleasures! As if we needed a really good reason to kiss the object of our desire, it turns out that some researchers believe that kissing evolved as a way to assess a potential partner’s compatibility because it exchanges a host of information about health and hormonal status. Dr. […]
Love, Law of Attraction and YOU!
Friday is Valentine’s Day (as I am sure you know) and I want you to give yourself permission to spoil yourself completely! If you feel yourself resisting this idea, please remember that the Law of Attraction states “what you put your attention on grows.” When we focus on self love, we attract more love. Now, […]
The Marriage Effect – the latest research!
I recently came across some fascinating research. It turns out the married couples, that are essentially happy and are in a good marriage, get the benefits of something called The Marriage Effect which means that they are: More likely to live longer More likely to be physically and mentally healthier and happier And will recover […]
The Most Loving Thing You Can Do
When I was single, I dreaded Valentine’s Day. In spite of my best efforts to “remain positive,” V-Day was a glaring reminder that I was all alone and it kicked up my insecurities that somehow true love was not in the cards for me. If only I knew then what I eventually figured out…. That big […]