Finding Love When & Where You Least Expect It

People often ask me if Brian was working on manifesting his soulmate when he met me and the simple answer is no. Meeting someone new was the last thing on his mind, in fact, when we met he was in the midst of ending a relationship. As I have said many, many times, Intention, Attention […]

Do you give up too easily?

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, We live in a society of instant gratification and many of us have lost the fine art of getting to know someone. While it’s true that sometimes when soulmates meet, sparks fly and it’s completely obvious to both parties that the ONE has been found, more often than not this isn’t what […]

LOVE Recycling- Part 2

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, I love going to weddings and this past weekend we had an amazing time at the wedding of our dear friends Kim & Nova. The setting couldn’t have been more perfect – Napa in the Spring – flowers in full bloom, warm breezes, and love so palpable you could feel it everywhere […]

Love Recycling

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, Synchronicity is a wonderous thing and I love to pay attention to the seemingly random yet connected things that happen in my life. One day, many years ago, my friend Cathy called to tell me about a man, Joe, she wanted to fix me up with on a blind date. Cathy shared […]

Do the right thing

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, It was the Fall of 1991 and I remember looking into his big brown eyes and feeling my heart expand to the far reaches of the Universe. My body was tingling and I was filled with the yummiest sensations. My mind was filled with the thoughts such as “he must be my […]

Are you ripe yet?

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, I’ve recently received a few emails from men and women who are frustrated because they feel they have been actively “searching” for their soulmate without success. I would like to address this issue since it seems to be a big one for many people and I know that a small shift in […]

My Soulmate Came Knocking on My Door!

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, One of the questions I am asked most often is from working moms who want to know “how will I ever meet someone when I am so busy with my kids, work, carpool, etc?” The first thing I always share with them is this true story of how my friend Peggy McColl, […]

Buddy System for Love

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, When we open to our most vulnerable feelings, needs and the desire to share our life with another (a most human desire), we may feel scared, intimidated, or maybe even hopeless. This is why I believe it’s really useful to find the perfect buddy to walk this path with you. We all […]

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Attract a Soulmate

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, My friend Bob Grant, has been a therapist and relationship coach for the past 17 years. Recently we were talking about the misconception by so many women (and some men) that they have to be “perfect” before they can attract a mate. Bob has a LOT to say about this and I […]

The 2010: The Destination of Your Dreams

Dear Soulmate Manifesters, As we begin this New Year and new decade, I have made my BIG list for 2010 and shared it with my mastermind buddy, Peggy McColl. We are going to continue our practice of speaking three mornings each week to support each other in our goals and dreams. To inspire you to […]