Pick a Partner That Has Your Back

For better or worse. Through thick and thin. Will take a bullet for you. Is solid as a rock. Always has your back and is your biggest cheerleader and safe place to land. As humans we need to feel physically and emotionally safe, especially with our beloved. Choosing a soulmate/life partner is the most important […]

Why Writing a Book Is an Act of Self Love

As someone who has written 12 books, had a big career as a book publicist and a literary agent, I’ve been deep in the publishing world for most of my life. Yesterday I was talking an old friend who was interviewing me for an article she is writing for a major publication about becoming an […]

How To be the BEST Grandparent

On Saturday I organized a Celebration of Life for my mother with more than 70 family and close friends in attendance at the Catamaran resort overlooking the water. We had a decadent buffet, face-painters, temporary tattoos, and butterfly wings for the kids, a musical performance by our dear friends Ron Bohmer and Sandra Joseph (they […]

Why Your Desire Is Already a Reality

The core basis of my belief and understanding about manifestation (whether you are manifesting love, a car, a new career, or a new little black dress) is this: There is no “time.” The past, present, and future all happen simultaneously. When we have a desire for something, it’s because some part of us “already knows […]

My BEST Survive and Thrive Mantras

I spent the weekend with a tribe of 80+ like-minded, conscious souls that I hadn’t seen in two years. Upon arrival we were all tested for Covid before receiving our color-coded name badges in an effort to keep all of us feeling safe. Green meant yes, lets hug. Yellow meant you can come close enough […]

Got Triggers? Get Glimmers!

Many of us suffer from deep childhood wounds, others of us are scarred from life in general. Given the state of the world, we’ve all been traumatized on various levels. And, we all have individual things that “trigger” us into feelings that impact our mental stability where we are reminded of past trauma or previous […]

The Rainbow Effect

This morning, before I got out of bed, I looked out the window and was delighted to see a magnificent, vibrant, and very wide rainbow. As I enjoyed the magic of the moment, it reminded me that our deepest desires are a lot like rainbows – just because we can’t always see them, doesn’t mean […]

The Power of Ruby Red Slippers and Prayer

Many years ago, I had a career changing meeting set up with a powerful CEO that I was terrified of. I had heard stories, from reliable sources, that he was a master of the dark forces and that he always got his way. I prepared for the meeting in three ways: First, I was very […]

We Are Never Alone

As so many of us find ourselves praying more often, more fervently than ever as bombs drop on Ukraine, the world economy is in turmoil, the pandemic continues, experiencing inner peace can be a real struggle. I’ve been on several global prayer webcasts, collectively praying and holding strong intentions for peace, for healings, for miracles, […]

Are You a Good Lover?

Being a great lover is more than mastering the Kama Sutra. On the deepest level it’s not so much about sex, it’s about leading (and loving) with an open, generous, and flexible heart. As much as most of us resist change, we must accept that we change, our partners change, and circumstances change. “To love […]