The Fastest Path to Loving Yourself More

Unless you are in a dark place of self-loathing (in which case please find a professional counselor to help you work through it), I know that the fastest way to love yourself more is to be in a healthy, happy, love relationship. I have come across so many people who tell me that they are […]

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How to BE with NOT KNOWING

One of the first things I learned in Journalism school is the importance to provide the Who, What, When, Where, and How in every story. As someone who always wanted to know all of those things, especially when I am trying to make BIG decisions and choices in my life, learning how to BE with […]

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How Many ”I Love You’s” Is Too Much?

Can your soulmate ever say “I Love You” too often? I doubt it. Of course, you first need a warm, loving, awesome soulmate to find out. For those of you fortunate ones who are living life with your soulmate, challenge yourself to UP your love sharing. Use every opportunity to tell them how much love […]

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The Difference Between Manifestation and Magical Thinking

Magical Thinking is something children do naturally and it’s a fun process for them. Believing in Santa Claus is a good example. But when we grow up and mature, engaging in magical thinking will often lead to frustration and disappointment. Magical Thinking is “wishing” to win the lottery but never buying a ticket. Magical Thinking […]

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What Law & Order Taught Me About Love

One of my favorite TV series of the last 20 years is Law and Order. I avidly watch all of the various versions of the show and often fall asleep to re-runs! I’m always impressed with how the defense attorneys stand up for their unlikable clients, working hard to prove that one is “innocent until […]

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Before You React, Reflect!

This morning I came across a colleagues name and that reminded me that she had not responded to my last three emails, which were requests for assistance on something that she easily could have said no to.  I felt myself getting angry, and feeling dissed, and then my imagination began thinking up ways to trick […]

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Who’s The Man In Your Relationship?

I am a very “bottom-line” person. I speak my mind. I call it as I see it, without all that flowery talk. While this communication style may be very useful in the workplace, I discovered it’s not a quality most men find endearing or attractive. One evening, when I was in my early thirties, I […]

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Declare Yourself A LOVE Philanthropist

My dear friend Marci Shimoff taught me the phrase Love Philanthropist, and every time I say it, it makes me smile. Just as I’ve learned that tithing not only makes me feel good, and does good for others, it also brings me more abundance. Being a Love Philanthropist brings more love. There are so many […]

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Best Ways To Be Your Biggest Cheerleader

They say we teach what we most need to learn and lately that has been true for me. I have decided to tackle a new project…I am calling it my “creative challenge,” and it is SO BIG and so intimidating to me that I am not sharing it with anyone… just yet. Every day, as […]

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When Your Dream ISN’T Happening

We’ve all been there. We’ve got a big dream, a desire, or a goal. We feel pretty sure it’s meant to be. We do all the right things: we take our inspired action steps, we pray, meditate, dance naked under the full moon. We re excited. We anticipate. We tell ourselves to be patient. We […]

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