The Art of Detachment (my sad story…)

When manifesting a dream or desire, there is a Universal Law as important and potent as the Law of Attraction. It’s called the Law of Detachment. When we are emotionally attached to “making” our desire happen we set ourselves up for frustration and disappointment and simultaneously keep ourselves at a vibration that can “push away” […]

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Meet Us in Paradise – Big Sur, CA

One of our favorite places in the world (besides India, Italy, and Bali) is Esalen, a stunningly beautiful retreat center in Big Sur, CA. Sitting high above the Pacific Ocean, this lush paradise offers world-class workshops, delicious organic food, (grown on-site) and the most amazing massages. (They actually invented many innovative massage techniques including a […]

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I Was a Lousy Wife (a confession)

Today I am in my 17th year of an amazing, deeply loving, fulfilling marriage to my soulmate Brian… and I almost blew it!   Soon after we got married, I made a horrifying discovery: I had no clue how to be a great wife. I was an excellent manifestor, and I was great at being […]

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Are You Leaking Negative Energy and Turning Off Men?

Have you ever considered that the signals you send out (involuntarily) every day may be turning off the very men you’re living with or trying to attract?   My good friend and colleague, Marni Battista, calls this “negative energy.”   And it’s the #1 chemistry killing mistake that keeps men from asking you out, keeps […]

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Fast Fix for Fear

A few months ago I was watching Grey’s Anatomy on TV and learned the most awesome thing! Here was the scene: Dr. Amelia Shepard was standing in the surgical suite, about to perform a groundbreaking 17-hour brain surgery on a colleague. She was scared out of her mind because if anything went wrong, her friend […]

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Be A Pleasure Pig – Part Two

  A few weeks ago I introduced you to the concept of living life like our cat Yoda does, as a Pleasure Pig.   We talked about all the ways to give yourself more pleasure in order to build oxytocin in your brain (while reducing stress).  Oxytocin is known as the “cuddling hormone” and having […]

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5 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart

My good friend and colleague, licensed psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT is like me – devoted to helping people find the love of their lives…   And in her work with thousands of women and men, Katherine has found that sometimes it’s a breakup that allows us to do just that.   She pioneered […]

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Why Your Dream Is Already A Reality

The core basis of my belief and understanding about manifestation (whether you are manifesting love, a car, a new career, or a new little black dress) is this:   There is no “time.” The past, present, and future all happen simultaneously.   When we have a desire for something, it’s because some part of us […]

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Are You In A Season of Love Or Loneliness? What To Do…

I have always found Vedic Astrology to be a useful tool in understanding how the planets are impacting my life and helpful in making decisions.  More often than not, it provides a good explanation from what I am intuitively feeling about how things are going.  One of my favorite astrologers is my dear friend and […]

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Prayers for Love & Resolution

Even in the best relationships, there are days when the you-know-what hits the fan and communication breakdowns and hurt feelings seem overwhelming. For times like this I pray for clarity and guidance.  I’ve often wished I had a book full of prayers for every conceivable situation and finally one has appeared!   My dear friend, […]

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