Spend the Weekend with Me to Manifest Big Love

What I am about to say is going to shock or surprise you and yet I know for sure it’s true: It has never been easier than it is today to manifest your soulmate. There is no shortage of love in the world. There is no shortage of people looking for life partners. Big Love […]

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The Imaginal Cells of Love

In biology there is a term called imaginal cells and it explains how a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly. The metamorphosis begins when the caterpillar hunkers down on a perch and forms a chrysalis. It then dissolves and decomposes into a cosmic ooze. During this process imaginal cells, which have been ling quietly inside the […]

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What is Love Anyway?

Did you know that in the Persian language there are 80 words for love? In Sanskrit there are 96 words and in Greek there are 7. Sadly, in English we only have 1 word for love. Thus, it isn’t surprising that love means different things to just about everyone. Love is one of those things […]

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Don’t Blame the Victim

A big part of having success with the Law of Attraction is understanding that “thoughts are things” and that our feelings, thoughts, beliefs help to co-create our reality. Other factors that also influence our lives include karma, divine timing, destiny, free will and that omnipresent reality of “shit happens.” When something really bad happens to someone […]

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Relationship Role Modeling from the Obamas

Sixteen years ago Barack and Michelle Obama’s marriage was about to crumble. Michelle told her mother she wasn’t sure their marriage would survive. Barack told his grandmother that Michelle’s constant nagging was driving him crazy. They were drowning in debt from the Ivy League law school loans. Michelle was the major breadwinner with her high […]

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John Lennon Got It All Wrong

Don’t get me wrong, I love John Lennon and I love the Beatles, but their song “All You Need is Love,” a lovely sentiment to be sure, is also far from the truth. The wild and wonderful state of “being in love” is natures greatest trick to get us to keep the species going, but […]

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What Does It Take Too Have BIG LOVE?

Yesterday was our 22nd wedding anniversary. As I thought about the wonder of it all, I asked my beloved soulmate, Brian, what his thoughts are on how we have created 22 years of togetherness….what he thought our “secret of success” is. Here is what he said: “Our sacred union was ignited in an instant when […]

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Now more than ever, Be A Pleasure Puppy

I don’t know about you but lately it seems that everyone I know is totally stressed out – not just from their own lives but from the “frequency in the field.” From the racial tensions and the horrific killing of African American men, women and children, to Covid-19 and the global pandemic, along with the […]

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Wabi Sabi Quarantine

Wabi Sabi is the ancient Japanese aesthetic of seeking to discover beauty and perfection in imperfection. It seeks to find the beauty in things that are old, worn, imperfect or impermanent. When we are in a situation beyond our control, and are finding ourselves highly annoyed or frustrated with someone’s behavior, that is the time […]

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A Theory of Love

A few years ago I came upon the letter below that was supposedly authored by Albert Einstein written to his daughter Liesel about love. I have since discovered that Einstein did not write this and the original author is still unknown. That said, when I re-read it again, I was still moved by the wisdom, […]

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