How To Know If He’s Your Soulmate

One of the questions I asked most often is:

“How do I know if he is my soulmate?”

Most of the soulmate couples I know have answered this question by saying that they just knew in every cell in their body that they were with the one.

I do have one friend who said he didn’t know his wife was his soulmate until they had been married for more than a year, however, since he loved her, also loved her family and he was certain they had everything necessary to have a great relationship, he decided to marry her.

Beyond just loving someone, here are some important questions to ask yourself if you are uncertain if this person is the “one” for you.

First and foremost, do you feel safe (both emotionally and physically) with this person?  If the answer is not a fast, firm, enthusiastic YES, put on the brakes.  Safety is the most important ingredient in a long-term, happy relationship.

Secondly, does this person match up with the most important heart traits and qualities on your soulmate wish list?

Thirdly, ask yourself if they are they open, willing, available for a long-term, honest relationship and do they meet the most important criteria to support your long-term happiness?

Then, you need to look and see if your relationship has all the hallmarks for success. These include: chemistry, compatibility, good communication, and a shared vision for the future.

Finally, ask yourself this:  Is their happiness is as important to you as your own?

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle